Just Ask

Just Ask

What’s the worst that can happen? “No I can’t do that.”  “How do you know?  Did you ask?” “Oh no, I can’t ask.”  “What if they say no?” Is this a conversation that goes on in your mind?   Last week I was at the beach with a friend.  Her condo was pool side not...
Creating Trust

Creating Trust

As the leader do you trust your leadership team?  When there is a high level of trust among members of a team, the team is able to move faster and go farther.  When you trust someone you are more willing to go out on a limb in what you say and in what you do.  It’s...
Fears

Fears

I just published a new book about facing our Fears (www.lovasconsulting.com/books) and then dealing with them. So I should be an expert right, sure I’m an expert on having fears, that’s why I had to write this book. And now I can’t even pretend that I don’t have any...
What stories are you telling yourself?

What stories are you telling yourself?

For the last month I’ve been looking at what was going on in my life, really it was more like what wasn’t going on in my life. I finally realized there were all these old stories running through my mind that I knew were not true.  The problem was they had been running...